How satisfied are you in your relationship?
Relationships can feel different at different times. This short questionnaire offers a chance to reflect on how you're experiencing yours right now.
16 questions · About 4 minutes · No account or email required
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This score reflects how you answered today, not the whole story of your relationship.
Out of 81 possible points · Higher scores indicate greater relationship satisfaction.
What feels supportive in your relationship right now? Where do you find yourselves getting stuck? What might you wish your partner understood more deeply?
Whatever your score, you don't have to have everything figured out before seeking support.
If you feel unsafe in your relationship, a satisfaction score cannot assess your safety. Consider contacting a trusted person or an appropriate confidential support service. In immediate danger, contact emergency services.
Couples Satisfaction Index (CSI-16). Questions and scoring from the instrument provided by the authors. Citation: Funk, J. L., & Rogge, R. D. (2007). Testing the ruler with item response theory: Increasing precision of measurement for relationship satisfaction with the Couples Satisfaction Index. Journal of Family Psychology, 21, 572–583.
Irina Neymark, Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist, AMFT #163993 · Revive Health Therapy · Supervised by Sasha Levine, LMFT #84819.